Film Review: “When a Man Loves a Woman” (1994) ★★★★★

Photo by Touchstone Pictures - © 1994
Photo by Touchstone Pictures – © 1994

What is better when it comes to fixing a broken relationship? Enabling it and pretend as if nothing is happening? Or trying to fix it by putting a bandage over a gunshot wound? Or perhaps, starting everything all over again? Luis Mandoki’s WHEN A MAN LOVES A WOMAN starring Meg Ryan and Andy Garcia talks about an airline pilot, Michael Green (Andy Garcia) who holds his wife, Alice (Meg Ryan) from falling to the bottom due to alcoholism, but does not face the real problem until the moment when her addiction threatens the life of their daughter, and their marriage. After letting her go to detox, Michael comes face to face with the truth of his enabling behavior. But what else could he do, if his love for her is so strong that he agreed to support her in everything, even if that means to close his eyes and follow her till the precipice?

You must know one thing before you start watching this film: it’s one of the most painful movies to watch, and unfortunately, still and always be relevant no matter in what century we will live. When the movie begins, you find Alice and Michael in a local bar, where they pretend that they don’t know each other. However, a minute later, you realise they are married, and what they did a second ago is just their desire to bring back the day they met. By looking at them, it is impossible to predict the storm that’s about to hit their ideal life. Despite not giving us the reason of Alice’s addiction to alcohol, you will be left alone with Michael, to figure it out with him while he seeks for an answer.

As the story unfolds, the viewer must face a few powerful scenes, that perhaps is not too far from reality. The first scene where a seemingly happily married Alice leaves the house in the middle of night to hide an empty bottle of vodka from her husband. And of course she had to do so, because she promised him never drink again. Second scene where you will certainly feel devastated is when an already drunk Alice slaps her daughter, demanding her to do her homework. But if alcohol had not took over her mind and patience, she would have known that her daughter already did her homework and there was no need to be so harsh. The third scene happens a minute after, when Alice collapses in front of her daughter while she was taking a bath. Those pretty disturbing signs made the couple to look deeper in their relationship to understand what went wrong, and why Alice uses alcohol as the way to escape the problem.

WHEN A MAN LOVES A WOMAN is a powerful drama with brilliant performances delivered by Andy Garcia and Meg Ryan. It’s about how one man endlessly loves a woman no matter in what shape she is. It is also about a woman, no matter how much she stoops, there is always a man in her life who cares about her more than himself. A man, who will follow her till the end and catch her every time she falls. But based on what you see, the approach he takes to fix the broken marriage was wrong. But in reality, what else could he do to protect her from ruining their lives, to let her fall? If your answer is yes, then most likely, you have forgotten the title of the film, WHEN A MAN LOVES A WOMAN. Falling from the rocks will never be an option.


6 thoughts on “Film Review: “When a Man Loves a Woman” (1994) ★★★★★

    1. Thank you for stopping by. Meg Ryan still remains as one of my favorite actresses… However, she simply disappeared from the big screen. It appears that she is completely unrecognizable now. She did something with her face that ruined her beautiful look. I am not here to spread the rumors or anything. All what I want is to start making films again with any look she has. She recently directed a film called, Ithaca where Tom Hanks appeared in a small role. Sounds like the film itself not receiving any positives reviews. But I don`t really care. Meg is talented human being and I want her keep sharing that talent with us.
      P.S. I will check your website out. Thanks again for leaving the comment! I appreciate that!

      1. Like you I miss seeing Meg on the big screen, but sadly I don’t think she’ll ever be a full-time actress again. After all the bad press of the last few who can blame her for stepping out of the limelight.
        Still, we have got Ithaca to look forward to and she’s also appearing in a cameo role in a film called Fangirl. Whatever she does in the future I wish her well!

      2. I think it’s not only press… Hollywood prefers much younger actresses right now. They no longer care about aging talent unless if that talent is Meryl Streep.

  1. Like Flesh and Bone, When a Man Loves a Woman is a truly great performance from Meg Ryan, Largely ignored, probably because critics expected to see Meg falling over food trolleys and faking orgasms in restaurants.
    I’m glad you appreciated this one!

    1. I meant to write about this film long time ago. I even managed to watch it a few times in past few months, but only now
      I reviewed it. I also have the soundtrack of When a Man Loves a Woman. Do you remember the one that was performed by Michael Bolton? It was amazing song!

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